The Crespi Man Is…
As a moral and spiritual person, the Crespi Man understands the Catholic Christian tradition as applied to personal formation and world events; is committed to living an ethical life as reflected through the holy Gospels; zealously pursues a relationship with God using prayer, reflection and study as modeled through the 800 year Carmelite tradition; recognizes and respects the personal gifts, diversity and dignity of all people.
As a lifelong learner, the Crespi Man uses logical, analytical, and creative thinking skills; uses appropriate, accurate, effective and creative language to express himself; uses current strategies and technologies to solve problems and extend his knowledge; applies his learning across the curriculum and real-life situations; engages intellectual curiosity.
As a productive and mature person, the Crespi Man strives to enhance and maintain physical, mental and emotional well-being; appreciates the arts and explores his individual creativity; accepts challenges in order to grow and takes responsibility for his actions; develops social skills to form life-long relationships; understands and participates in the democratic process; improves the community through his commitment to service and social justice.
CJ Kruska, Crespi Teacher’s Statement on Crespi Learning and Life
CJ Kruska is Crespi’s newest Gurian Certified Trainer (joining Dr. Alan Swaney, Mr. Rob Kodama, and Mr. Daniel Parlato). Because this Trainer Application Statement provides an in depth portrait of the quality of staff and education at Crespi (as well as strategies that work and don’t work with boys), we are publishing it here.
From Mr. CJ Kruska:
Even before joining the Crespi Carmelite High School community last summer, I was aware of the Gurian Institute and Dr. Gurian’s research and instructional strategies for boys and girls. As an elementary school principal, I had my staff attend a professional development event with Mr. Robert Kodama as the Gurian Certified Trainer. It sparked many conversations among our school’s staff.
I have spent over 20 years as an educator in a classroom and on the field. As a head football coach, I was responsible for teaching, training, and motivating players. My goal was to join them on their journey to become the best football player they can be, and to become an even better young man. It was very challenging at times because I was trained to coach in a certain way that was not the most effective when considering the learning styles of the boys. If I had the Gurian training at the beginning of my coaching career, I might not have felt the burnout and left coaching. Some of the struggles included raising my voice (in anger at times) and challenging them; which only resulted in confrontation without learning. Another struggle was expecting the players would understand schemes and scouting reports that were heavily explained through words (in “chalk-talk” classrooms), rather than walkthroughs on the field. Film study was probably the worst as most players would be completely zoned out after about 20 minutes, and then they would get in trouble for not paying attention. It was exhausting coaching my players without the knowledge of the Gurian Institute.
About 10 years ago I redirected my main focus from coaching into the classroom, and then to school administration. Teaching was frustrating for me due the same reasons mentioned above, but I had more control in a classroom environment. It was when I began teaching Psychology that I began to focus more on the meta-cognition of my students. I was teaching my students how they personally learn themselves, and that is when I began to see that the way many teachers, including me, were teaching was inefficient and more challenging than it should be. I did not have the Gurian Institute’s training yet, but I was beginning to look for better ways to be a better teacher and leader.
Covid was difficult on all of us and my own son really struggled. He was not a pleasant person to be with and my wife and I were desperately looking for some ways to help him cope. After listening to Mr. Kodama’s presentation and after reading Dr. Gurian’s book Boys And Girls Learn Differently, I began to see some clarity and hope. Since parents are the primary educators of our children, I began communicating with my son differently (more listening, less talking, and more doing together). His anxiety dropped almost immediately and my wife and I were seeing our son begin to smile and laugh again. I have taken what I learned from my interactions with my own son to the classroom at Crespi, and the boys seem to be benefiting from a more Gurian approach to learning.
It has been challenging at times as I made the return to the classroom and to a single sex school like Crespi. However, with the multiple Gurian Institute’s trainings (with Mr. Kodama a few years ago and the Summer Institute last summer) and the experience with my son, the transition would not have been as smooth as it was.
Here are just some strategies I have already begun instituting based on Dr. Gurian’s research in our classroom; no lectures longer than 10-12 minutes (with a timer the boys can see), clear agendas displayed for the entire class period, students “stand and deliver” when answering questions or reading to the class, mini-games (cup stacking, spoon flip, cereal box puzzles, etc.) halfway through the period with the winner getting to sit in the comfy sofa chair for the rest of class, lesson notes available in advance, classroom desk set-up with two sides for quick competitions, stress ball toss for vocabulary reviews, very little computer screen time, etc. I believe these have been successful strategies as many of the boys still hang out in my classroom through lunch because the environment is a comfortable and boy-friendly space.
Not all of the strategies worked, like when I asked the students to race down the hallway for extra credit points on a quiz (What was I thinking?!), but I am willing to try and fail if it will help the boys. As a Gurian Trainer, I would be able to share my success and learning experiences with others that are looking to improve their ability to communicate with the boys in their life as a parent, teacher, coach, etc. Please consider me as a candidate to become a Gurian Certified Trainer, so I can help improve the success of the boys as they become young men, fathers and leaders in their communities.